A different and positive view from México

My beautiful MOM sent me this via email and I thought it would be good to share, especially with all the bad news we keep hearing about México. It’s a different perspective by a well known journalist.

Gracias Mamá!! TQM. Besos.

One Journalist’s View By Linda Ellerbee

Sometimes I’ve been called a maverick because I don’t always agree with my colleagues, but then, only dead fish swim with the stream all the time. The stream here is Mexico . You would have to be living on another planet to avoid hearing how dangerous Mexico has become, and, yes, it’s true drug wars have escalated violence in Mexico , causing collateral damage, a phrase I hate. Collateral damage is a cheap way of saying that innocent people, some of them tourists, have been robbed, hurt or killed.

But that’s not the whole story. Neither is this. This is my story. I’m a journalist who lives in New York City , but has spent considerable time in Mexico , specifically Puerto Vallarta , for the last four years. I’m in Vallarta now. And despite what I’m getting from the U.S. media, the 24-hour news networks in particular, I feel as safe here as I do at home in New York , possibly safer. I walk the streets of my Vallarta neighborhood alone day or night. And I don’t live in a gated community, or any other All-Gringo neighborhood. I live in Mexico .. Among Mexicans. I go where I want (which does not happen to include bars where prostitution and drugs are the basic products), and take no more precautions than I would at home in New York; which is to say I don’t wave money around, I don’t act the Ugly American, I do keep my eyes open, I’m aware of my surroundings, and I try not to behave like a fool.

I’ve not always been successful at that last one. One evening a friend left the house I was renting in Vallarta at that time, and, unbeknownst to me, did not slam the automatically-locking door on her way out. Sure enough, less than an hour later a stranger did come into my house. A burglar? Robber? Kidnapper? Killer? Drug lord? No, it was a local police officer, the “beat cop” for our neighborhood, who, on seeing my unlatched door, entered to make sure everything (including me) was okay. He insisted on walking with me around the house, opening closets, looking behind doors and, yes, even under beds, to be certain no one else had wandered in, and that nothing was missing. He was polite, smart and kind, but before he left, he lectured me on having not checked to see that my friend had locked the door behind her. In other words, he told me to use my common sense.

Do bad things happen here? Of course they do. Bad things happen everywhere, but the murder rate here is much lower than, say, New Orleans, and if there are bars on many of the ground floor windows of houses here, well, the same is true where I live, in Greenwich Village, which is considered a swell neighborhood — house prices start at about $4 million (including the bars on the ground floor windows).

There are good reasons thousands of people from the United States are moving to Mexico every month, and it’s not just the lower cost of living, a hefty tax break and less snow to shovel.. Mexico is a beautiful country, a special place. The climate varies, but is plentifully mild, the culture is ancient and revered, the young are loved unconditionally, the old are respected, and I have yet to hear anyone mention Britney Spears, Lindsay Lohan, or Madonna’s attempt to adopt a second African child, even though, with such a late start, she cannot possibly begin to keep up with Anglelina Jolie.

And then there are the people. Generalization is risky, but— in general — Mexicans are warm, friendly, generous and welcoming. If you smile at them, they smile back. If you greet a passing stranger on the street, they greet you back. If you try to speak even a little Spanish, they tend to treat you as though you were fluent. Or at least not an idiot. I have had taxi drivers track me down after leaving my wallet or cell phone in their cab. I have had someone run out of a store to catch me because I have overpaid by twenty cents. I have been introduced to and come to love a people who celebrate a day dedicated to the dead as a recognition of the cycles of birth and death and birth — and the 15th birthday of a girl, an important rite in becoming a woman — with the same joy. Too much of the noise you’re hearing about how dangerous it is to come to Mexico is just that — noise. But the media love noise, and too many journalists currently making it don’t live here. Some have never even been here. They just like to be photographed at night, standing near a spotlighted border crossing, pointing across the line to some imaginary country from hell. It looks good on TV.

Another thing. The U.S. media tend to lump all of Mexico into one big bad bowl. Talking about drug violence in Mexico without naming a state or city where this is taking place is rather like looking at the horror of Katrina and saying, “Damn. Did you know the U.S. is under water?” or reporting on the shootings at Columbine or the bombing of the Federal building in Oklahoma City by saying that kids all over the U.S. are shooting their classmates and all the grownups are blowing up buildings. The recent rise in violence in Mexico has mostly occurred in a few states, and especially along the border. It is real, but it does not describe an entire country.

It would be nice if we could put what’s going on in Mexico in perspective, geographically and emotionally. It would be nice if we could remember that, as has been noted more than once, these drug wars wouldn’t be going on if people in the United States didn’t want the drugs, or if other people in the United States weren’t selling Mexican drug lords the guns. Most of all, it would be nice if more people in the United States actually came to this part of America ( Mexico is also America , you will recall) to see for themselves what a fine place Mexico really is, and how good a vacation (or a life) here can be.

So come on down and get to know your southern neighbors. I think you’ll like it here. Especially the people.

5 thoughts on “A different and positive view from México


  2. Las noticias de Estados Unidos y demas países solo provocan miedo a los “posibles turistas”, en México, la mayoría de los negocios en algunas ciudades son 100% dedicados a este giro (turismo) y debido a la mala información o a la exageración de los periodicos o noticieros muchas de estas pequeñas empresas han estado cerrando, llamese desde restaurantes hasta los famosos curios.

    Por ejemplo: La última vez que fuimos a Ensenada-Rosarito vimos muchos negocios solos, o incluso abandonados, se ve solamente gente que vive ahi caminando o en el mercado. CERO turistas, CERO gringos haciendo lo que quieran en la calle ya que en su país no los dejan….
    y recuerdo que en una noticia del TIMES lei que una mujer (no recuerdo su nombre, tan insignificante que ya la olvide jaja) dijo que Baja (ens y ros) parecía una “zona de guerra” cuando solo habia 1 famoso reten entre rosarito y ensenada…. no habia militares en cada esquina con sus pistolas como ella dijo…..que le pasa a esta tipa? seguro no conoce nuestros mares o ciudades. Digo, si no sabes porque criticas no?

    México es lindo, digo, si tiene sus fallas como todos los demás países, pero por lo menos como mexicanos somos bien buena onda… jeje

  3. Me encanta!! Por fin alguien tiene la voluntad de decir las cosas que realmente pasan en Mexico, y que mejor que una periodista norteamericana. La verdad que Mexico es un pais increible, su gente es sencilla, calida, amable y servicial. No en todas partes del mundo llegas a conocer gente con todas estas cualidades!!! Y miren que me ha tocado andar por varias partes del mundo y yo puedo decir con orgullo que como “Mexico no hay dos”. Su comida, sus playas, su hospitalidad, el respeto a los ancianos, el amor a la familia, sus tradiciones, su historia, su cultura. En fin que les puedo decir. Ningun pais primer mundista tiene reunidas todas estos atributos. Defendamos y amemos a Mexico. Yo, pongo mu granito de arena todos los dias hablando bien de mi pais a persona que conozco en Australia. Haganlo ustedes y veran que poco a poco se rompe ese tabu tan horrible en el que nos quieren etiquetar….
    Cristi, me das chance de publicar esta carta en mi blog? Hay mucha gente que lee mi pagina y me gustaria compartirlo con ellos.

  4. esos reporteros dijeron en cámara lo que la gente quería oir para satisfacer su terrible necesidad por saber que hay un lugar far worse than their own, y asi les dieron su bonus y ¿ que hicieron con su $$? pues se fueron a BEATIFUL CHEAP M E X I C O….

  5. Mexico is healthy!! Ay que seguir el movimiento “Vive Mexico” and like President Calderon said… “WE have to be ambassadors of Mexico from now on,” he also added that Vive Mexico is “a true national movement that needs the participation of all Mexicans.” Yo por lo menos voy a mandar a mi mama el proximo mes y para Agosto espero estar visitando las bellas playas de mi bello Nayarit. Vive Mexico…Indeed.

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